What can you do?

So much is going on in all of our lives, sometimes I have to just take a step back...Breathe...and remind myself we're all human, and we all have a path in life that sometimes may have a bump or two in it and we'll just have to get back up and keep going.

It's painful to watch a loved one make the wrong choices though, I know that most will say "well it's not your place to say what a wrong or right choice is, it's that person's" but to that I say screw off. It is my place when the one making the choice is someone I love very much, and would do anything for. There are times in life when we all get scared, like when it's time to face the fact that you're an adult and every dission you make (large ones) can affect the outcome of your future, or that moment you say "I do" on your wedding day how even though you know that this is the happiest moment of your life...you can't help but be scared of all the bad that may or may not come, or the first time you hold your child and no matter how many other kids you've held or taken care of you still get that rush of fear and that scary thought of "I have no idea what I'm doing." Gosh even the first day of a new job! Fear is everywhere and it grips at you, taking a tight hold and some people are able to deal with that in a rational way while others feel this burning need to run, or change, or things of that sort.

Gah I had a point to this but my mind is all frazzled...I'll write more later.